❄️ 12 Days of Regulation: Day 6 ❄️
Welcome to Day 6 of our regulation series! Today’s tool is one of the most impactful strategies for impulse control, flexible thinking, and emotional regulation: the Pause Button.
This activity helps kids slow down, think clearly, and choose a better response — especially during frustration, transitions, or high-emotion moments.
⏸️ Why the Pause Button Works
Sometimes our brains act fast — too fast. Kids (and teens) often react before they have a chance to think through what’s really happening. The Pause Button gives them a physical, visual reminder to:
Stop
Take a breath
Think again
Choose a more helpful action
It turns an impulsive moment into a mindful moment.
🧠 Executive Function Connection
The Pause Button builds four essential EF skills:
✔️ Impulse Control
Instead of reacting automatically (“No!” “I don’t want to!”), kids learn to insert a pause.
✔️ Emotional Regulation
Pausing interrupts the emotional “boom” and reduces the intensity of reactions.
✔️ Flexible Thinking
Kids practice noticing alternatives: “I could yell… OR I could take a second and answer calmly.”
✔️ Self-Monitoring
Checking in with themselves before responding builds long-term awareness.
These skills support smoother transitions, fewer outbursts, and better communication at home and school.
🎁 Today’s Free Tool: Pause Button Building Instructions
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Parent communication & support
Understanding triggers and patterns
Practising regulation strategies until they become automatic
Strengthening their executive functions for everyday success
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Stay tuned tomorrow for Day 7 of Regulation!
With warmth, Giovanna & the Connected Pathways Coaching Team 🧠💛

